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Plan for the next journey

Plan now for the next decade… including marriage?

My girlfriend struck me with a huge topic – plan for the next few years when we were casually chatting a while ago. She talked about getting married at a certain year, then she asked if I wanted to draft a mid-term plan for 5 years.

I responded, why not 10 years?

Indeed, a person’s definition of long time is subjective. Depending on the context and situation, it could be 1 hour. 3 days. 1 week. Or even longer. In the context of being able to meet only a handful of times a year, a few months consecutively is a long time.

We didn’t set an arbitrary year to get married, but we picked a concrete year where it served as a potential milestone for both of us. Just the sweet spot to mark a new beginning, I guess. However, I think of more than just the time where we mark a new beginning, but the road ahead when the new journey begins.

That is why I set a 10 year, long term period.

Instead of fooling around, I planned to set serious targets and devise ways to achieve them. Some people thought it was “too early”, as in “you should enjoy this and that before fully committing in!”. However, being targets that were designed to achieve together, achieving them alone will be a hard one, hence, only the efforts of two people combined will make the journey a worthwhile one.

Setting a new plan isn’t hard — open a new Word window, or your favorite word processing software/platform (Google Docs, Microsoft Word Online, Apple Pages, etc), create a table consisting of two columns — year on the left, target(s) on the right, and plan away!

One of my plans for 2020 looks something like below:

Year Targets
Summer 2020 Explore western Japan

What are your short/mid/long term plans for the next decade?

By Adrian Khor

Speaks Mandarin Chinese, English, Japanese, and Malay. Software developer based in Greater Tokyo, Japan. Specializes in .NET stack and C# at web and desktop development. Loves to listen to music, watching movies, reading books, and travel.

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